There’s a short, but powerful post up at Becoming a Stepmom, by Jacquelyn Fletcher. She talks about the loss of control after a divorce and remarriage that everyone feels, no exceptions. And it’s that loss of control that leads to fear, which can then lead to anger, which spills over into bad behavior and a sense of justification and… there you have the stress of a stepfamily, or a family headed by a single or remarried mom.
Everyone feels out of control, which equals FEAR. To begin alleviating fear, find ways to give everyone a sense that they have a say in what is happening in their lives.
Food for thought….
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